How to Overcome Imposter Syndrome
Do you often feel like your success came through good luck rather than your own talent? Do you worry that others will someday discover that you’re a “fraud”? You may be struggling with imposter syndrome, and you aren’t alone. As many as 7 in 10 adults will deal with imposter syndrome at some point in their careers.
Now you’re probably wondering how to overcome imposter syndrome. What is it, exactly? What’s the treatment? Is there a way to get help online? Here’s what you should know about imposter syndrome.
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What Is Imposter Syndrome?
Despite the imposing name, imposter syndrome isn’t actually a diagnosis or medical problem.
Instead, it’s a pattern of thinking that can lead to negative self-talk, self-doubt, and missed opportunities. It may feel like everyone except you knows exactly what they’re doing and that they will expose you as a fraud.
The good news is that imposter syndrome can be treated by owning your accomplishments and learning how to tackle those self-doubts before they become crippling. Imposter syndrome isn’t something you need to live with for the rest of your life.
Imposter Syndrome Symptoms
Symptoms of imposter syndrome may include:
Overachieving
Self-doubt
Sabotaging your success
Not being able to assess your skills and competence realistically
Setting very high goals and feeling disappointed when you don’t reach them
Attributing your success to external factors, like luck
Worrying that you won’t live up to expectations
Berating your performance
What Triggers Imposter Syndrome?
While there are likely many different triggers, imposter syndrome causes may include things like:
Entering a new role (like starting college or a new job, or a recent promotion)
Becoming a parent
Family background (like families that value achievement over anything else)
Being a minority race or gender
An underlying anxiety disorder (like generalized anxiety disorder or social anxiety)
Certain personality traits (like perfectionism)
Cultural background (the United States, for example, tends to be individualistic with high pressure to succeed)
Imposter Syndrome and Social Anxiety
While not everybody with imposter syndrome has social anxiety, and not everybody with social anxiety has imposter syndrome, there is often an overlap. People with social anxiety may feel like they don’t belong in social situations and worry that their perceived social incompetence will be discovered.
For people who struggle with both social anxiety and imposter syndrome, cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) can help improve the symptoms of both.
How to Cope With Imposter Syndrome?
Imposter syndrome treatment can involve therapy, but there are ways you may be able to deal with it on your own. Here are some tips:
Separate facts from feelings. Your accomplishments are yours, regardless of how you feel about them. Find examples of proof that you are actually good at your job (or whatever you feel like you’re an imposter at), like awards or praise from your boss.
Stop comparing yourself to others. Another person’s accomplishments don’t make yours any less real. This is especially true for social media. Remember that people tend to put their best selves forward on social media - and not their real lives.
Talk about it. Since most people will deal with imposter syndrome at some point, you may be surprised at how many people can relate to you. Feeling less alone with your experience may help.
If you’re struggling to overcome your imposter syndrome, cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) may be able to help. In fact, the entire point of CBT is to identify and change disturbing or disruptive thought patterns that have a negative effect on emotions and behaviors. A licensed therapist can help you alter these thought patterns so you have a healthier mindset.
Frequently Asked Questions
What Does Imposter Syndrome Feel Like?
While it will feel different for everybody, imposter syndrome may make you feel:
Incompetent
Undeserving of promotions or praise
Unworthy of your accomplishments
Inadequate
Like you don’t belong
Intense fear of being exposed as a fraud
Like you’re the only person struggling while everybody else has things figured out
Does Imposter Syndrome Go Away?
Imposter syndrome can go away, especially if you can figure out what’s causing those feelings of not being good enough and find healthy ways to overcome them.
If you’re struggling to deal with imposter syndrome, therapy may be able to help. A professional therapist will be able to help you figure out why you have these beliefs and will help you come up with a strategy to change your thinking and overcome your insecurities.
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Get private and secure emotional support weekly from your dedicated therapist.
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Imposter Syndrome Therapy Online
If you’re struggling with imposter syndrome, online therapy with PlushCare could help. For an affordable rate, you get a 45-minute weekly session with a licensed therapist who can help you combat your imposter syndrome with therapy.
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Cleveland Clinic. A Psychologist Explains How to Deal With Imposter Syndrome. Accessed on May 18, 2021 at https://health.clevelandclinic.org/a-psychologist-explains-how-to-deal-with-imposter-syndrome/
National Institutes of Health. Contextualizing the Impostor “Syndrome”. Accessed on May 18, 2021 at https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7703426/
National Institutes of Health. Prevalence, Predictors, and Treatment of Impostor Syndrome: a Systematic Review. Accessed on May 18, 2021 at https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7174434/
